Archive for March, 2009
So I think that I have given you enough time to sit and think this solution over. So how do we bring this dating game on to an even playing field where neither the male nor the female has the upper hand, or is that even possible?
In my experience is that there is no solutions, sorry, its just doesn’t add up it just would not be worth it if it just was not hard. I know that many of you are very disappointing but maybe you can find a hole but in my point of view there is none.
Here are some pointers to get the upper hand.
First you have to gain some Confidence. Confidence is essential for getting anywhere in this game. With this simple element you can change the playing field to be to your favor, this goes for both sexes. If you can’t seem to find the confidences that is with in you, you have to take a deep look with in and find a way to be happy with yourself. Know that you come with strengths and weakness love yourself with even with all your faults and if you really want to change yourself to something else, that is fine too but just don’t lose the underlining you that is what separates you from everyone else.
You sometimes walk down the street and your see this ugly guy with this bomb shell of a woman and vice versa, that is manly because of confidence.
Second, take Karma to heart. Karma is the essence of balance. You can’t win all the games you play so you should not be fearful of rejection or if a bad date happens; they just happens to play out that way but understand that Karma is that the balance of the world will give even a the worst dog a good day here and there. The universe is a place of balance, Babe Ruth actually had more strikes then most of the baseball player at his time but he also had a the most home runs. Just take the first step and let Karma work for you, also that Karma works on the principle of given. Just help other to have good Karma by doing good deeds and good Karma comes to you but you will never know when it will come; but it always come at the right time.
Lastly, have fun, some people get into relationships to please others or just because they feel like they have to. With that type of mentality you are bound to miss out on the true nature of a spontaneous relationship. Yes a good relationship is some times off-the-cuff! Don’t do the same typical thing with each date, change it up and expand your horizon. Guys instead of always a dinner and a movie do something that you have never done before like go to a museum ( I know that some of you guys don’t even pick up a book unless you have to. Get some culture in your life man!).Or for some just wing it that keeps the coversation changing if your hit several things or you just go for a walk to see the cities attractions. You never know you might find something that will make for a perfect date. Have fun because if your not having fun there is no point.
Well that is all for this one.
The Voice of Prime
From the beginning of time man has always seem to have a drive. To do better, to reach higher, to make a stand or a change. And I was thinking to myself….why? That reminds me of my orientation to college. They asked all of us to look at the two people at are sides and then they stated that only one out of us three would actually graduate for college. Yeah thanks, I felt warm and fuzzy after that, I graduated high school with a 2.6 GPA ( for those that don’t know, that means that I sucked in high school).
But after all my failures I’m still going. I heard once and that Thomas Edison failed over a hundred times at making the light bulb, and his commit to that was ”I did fail over a hundred times I only find several hundred ways that didn’t work.”
That leads to us. Why do keep going? And I have come to the conclusion of this, man has the biggest dreams and they are finite but we have something with in us that tells us that we can reach the infinite. Now this infinite is different with all of us but we are always testing the limits, and suddenly realizing that man has broken barriers before and we can do it again.
Now what does that have to do with school and our day to day lives. Simply don’t give up! as children we didn’t master walking in our first few tries but we eventually got better. We did get the job we really wanted at first but with the experience from another you can eventually get the one that we wanted. So many of us give up on are dreams not even knowing that with just a little more effort that barrier was just about to burst and your life was just about to change forever.
Just something to have you guys merinate on
The Voice of Prime
So the game-
I’m often asked on how my dating life is? And I have come to the conclusion that this game is just messed up! For those that are just lost, let me spit it to you clear. Dating is a game and its nothing but a game, there are no time outs; there are no do-overs; there are no rule books. Have you ever had a younger sibling that always wanted you to come and play with them and when you finally give into their pestering and start to play the game you realized that you have just played into the trap. This innocent child is now God and there are no tactic that can think of to get you to beat this child because you are now playing by the child’s rules.
This is the same for relationships, don’t think its only one gender does this. Both Male and Female are equally responsible for playing by their own rules.
What rules you might ask? How about the phone game, what is the proper time that needs to laps before actually calling the and setting some think up? Is it a day, is it three days. Or is it when venus hits the highest in the Lunar sky and the moon is full……..Are you kidding me! There is no rules, the rules are placed by the other person and you are fantic is trying to find out where are you ranked.
I can go on for a long time about rules and what we should and should not do. But I want to ask this question and I will answer it in a weeks time. “What is the proper solution to this?” what can a guy do and what can a girl do to make the game a more even field where the game is pound for pound, or if there is no problem to the way it is say that also.
I’m watching-
The Voice of Prime