So I think that I have given you enough time to sit and think this solution over. So how do we bring this dating game on to an even playing field where neither the male nor the female has the upper hand, or is that even possible?
In my experience is that there is no solutions, sorry, its just doesn’t add up it just would not be worth it if it just was not hard. I know that many of you are very disappointing but maybe you can find a hole but in my point of view there is none.
Here are some pointers to get the upper hand.
First you have to gain some Confidence. Confidence is essential for getting anywhere in this game. With this simple element you can change the playing field to be to your favor, this goes for both sexes. If you can’t seem to find the confidences that is with in you, you have to take a deep look with in and find a way to be happy with yourself. Know that you come with strengths and weakness love yourself with even with all your faults and if you really want to change yourself to something else, that is fine too but just don’t lose the underlining you that is what separates you from everyone else.
You sometimes walk down the street and your see this ugly guy with this bomb shell of a woman and vice versa, that is manly because of confidence.
Second, take Karma to heart. Karma is the essence of balance. You can’t win all the games you play so you should not be fearful of rejection or if a bad date happens; they just happens to play out that way but understand that Karma is that the balance of the world will give even a the worst dog a good day here and there. The universe is a place of balance, Babe Ruth actually had more strikes then most of the baseball player at his time but he also had a the most home runs. Just take the first step and let Karma work for you, also that Karma works on the principle of given. Just help other to have good Karma by doing good deeds and good Karma comes to you but you will never know when it will come; but it always come at the right time.
Lastly, have fun, some people get into relationships to please others or just because they feel like they have to. With that type of mentality you are bound to miss out on the true nature of a spontaneous relationship. Yes a good relationship is some times off-the-cuff! Don’t do the same typical thing with each date, change it up and expand your horizon. Guys instead of always a dinner and a movie do something that you have never done before like go to a museum ( I know that some of you guys don’t even pick up a book unless you have to. Get some culture in your life man!).Or for some just wing it that keeps the coversation changing if your hit several things or you just go for a walk to see the cities attractions. You never know you might find something that will make for a perfect date. Have fun because if your not having fun there is no point.
Well that is all for this one.
The Voice of Prime